“Zindagi tere gam ne hamein..rishte nayein samjhaye..
Mile jo hamein..dhoop mein mile..chaav ke thande saayein…”
Have been listening to this song the whole day today…
So true isnt it??? Think of the 5 most important people in your life. Isnt it true that they have come into your life just when you needed them the most?
I have this particular friend (aarti) who has been with me for only 2 days and ended up being one of my best friends. We are not in the same class anymore and neither do we meet very often. But I know that Im there for her as a friend and that she too is there for me. Somehow “we clicked”. I wonder why? There was hardly anything common between us, no particular reason to be friends.Was it the need of the first day, coz we didnt know anybody else, or was it that there was a space for a new friend?
Sometimes people say “we clicked”. Somehow I dont agree to this clicking thing. I believe that we make space for people in our life. Sometimes there are really good people around you. But they do not end up being a part of your life simply because there is just no space. And then they remain there…mere acquaintances…
Sometimes there is a void, a place for somebody to come and fit into it. and when that happens..we say “we clicked”.
And sometimes you have to literally push somebody out, to make place for somebody else… after all “yeh dil hai dil..koi dharamshala nahi haii”
Call me an unromantic soul or whatever..
I call myself- A rational mind! 😉