Archive for January 2011

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market mein hain jobs few
aate rehte hai colleges new…
demand aur supply ki hai dhajiya udi
jaane kis Company se hai meri kismat judi…

 

Finance lete hai sab log,
kyuki marketing se jude hai kai rog..
Inhi logon ke liye banayi hamne, profiles nirali…
fir bhi nahi aati HR ke liye, Companies koi saali.. 

 

Feb ke liye ruko, kehte hai sab
"Hoyega kya pukka", aye batade mere rab..
aye mere dost, ab toh thoda has
zindagi bhi apni, yuhi savar jayegi bas..

 

Abha Deshkar

18/01/2011

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Zindagi tere gam ne hamein..rishte nayein samjhaye..

Mile jo hamein..dhoop mein mile..chaav ke thande saayein…

Have been listening to this song the whole day today…

 

So true isnt it??? Think of the 5 most important people in your life. Isnt it true that they have come into your life just when you needed them the most?

I have this particular friend (aarti) who has been with me for only 2 days and ended up being one of my best friends. We are not in the same class anymore and neither do we meet very often. But I know that Im there for her as a friend and that she too is there for me. Somehow “we clicked”. I wonder why? There was hardly anything common between us, no particular reason to be friends.Was it the need of the first day, coz we didnt know anybody else, or was it that there was a space for a new friend?

 

Sometimes people say “we clicked”. Somehow I dont agree to this clicking thing. I believe that we make space for people in our life. Sometimes there are really good people around you. But they do not end up being a part of your life simply because there is just no space. And then they remain there…mere acquaintances…

Sometimes there is a void, a place for somebody to come and fit into it. and when that happens..we say “we clicked”.

And sometimes you have to literally push somebody out, to make place for somebody else… after all “yeh dil hai dil..koi dharamshala nahi haii

 

Call me an unromantic soul or whatever..

I call myself- A rational mind! ;)

 

Abha Deshkar

17/1/2011

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Just saw the movie “No One Killed Jessica”.

Alright so somebody did kill Jessica Lal after all. After watching the movie I was numb for sometime.

I felt happy about the fact that the movie shows that if we Indians are capable of standing upn together and when we do support something, we really do it in numbers.(2 Lac sms’es and in those times when it wasn’t even as cheap as today!).….yet, at the same time I feel sick that I am a part of a country where influential people (read politicians) get away with such kind of stuff, making a mockery of our judicial machinery, and all that the common man can do is wait for some “Tehelka” people to take fancy of our case so that they can use it to screw up somebody and in the process…get us justice.

They say JUSTICE DELAYED IS JUSTICE DENIED. So what did Jessica’s family get? Her mother died knowing that the culprit was roaming free, left her father almost in a crippled state and her sister alone.

After the movie I wondered – What if “Tehelka” had not taken this case up? It would have been just one of those numerous cases. So if I had to thank somebody it really wouldn’t be Sabrina (although her effort and courage is appreciated ), or the police officers( wonder why I even mention them!) it would have been “Tehelka” for taking up this case.

Finally who killed Jessica??  Manu Sharma? NO! He only fired at her. Her friends? NO! They only tried to save their ass!

THIS COUNTRY KILLED JESSICA!

And now, who killed Aarushi?  Will we have to wait for another 10 years for this case to be reopened ?  Guess my kids will get to watch “NO ONE KILLED AARUSHI” (and I’m not trying to be funny)

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And ya,I’m considering not reading anything written by Mrs. Shobha De anymore now.

In her words “The more important issue is simply this: did the movie work as powerful cinema, devoid of recall or emotional baggage? The answer is a disappointing ‘no’. The script is weak and patchy, with the first half crawling along painfully, establishing nothing more than Vidya Balan’s morose mood.”

Dear Shobha AUNTY…Again you get us youngsters wrong! We all were really glued into the movie, some of us even taking the pains to read about this case, before going to watch the movie. And ya, we really liked the movie coz of its simplicity and for avoiding the unnecessary drama and emotion..It was a story well told and there was no need of teary eyed emotional atyachar.

Instead, what we get is a Babe Film – one ( Rani), a foul mouthed, promiscuous , self styled bitch who takes pride in spewing cuss words liberally and wears her official ‘bitch status’ as a badge of honour ( her maid calls her a ‘kutti’ – and the audience cheers!)”

Oh and FYI (for your information ;) ) we loved the foul mouthed, promiscuous , self styled bitch (Rani) too!

Totally loooved the track of “d d d d delli delli delli delli” :)

 

Abha Deshkar.

12/01/2011

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Are you 20-something…finished or just about to finish your studies, working or in search of a job…Single…Or even a little mingled???

Oh and btw are you a girl?? If yes..read  along…if not..still read..(a little info never hurt anybody!)

Do you hate going to social functions with your parents? Does some long lost relative look at you and say “arre wah…mulgi mothi zhaali… ” as if you were supposed to stay small all your life? Do your sari day pictures reach places/people you dont even know??

If yes…welcome to this world…if no…you soon will.

 

Well its the marriage season..and as my friend pointed out “We are hot property..!!! ” 

But along the way come few incidents..which surprise you/ amuse you/ create a cause of worry/ make you angry/sad or even disappoint you.

 

Here are a few experiences..

 

CASE 1

“ My friend in the office has a son, who’s stays in Australia, and is coming down to see girls… When you called up yesterday..I was sitting with her, and I just happened to mention that Abha will be completing her MBA this year….” my door-ke-rishtedar tells my mom

Oh how convenient!

I glare at my mother and she glares back! Even if your mother has still not realized that she should get you married, its these “door-ke-rishtedar” who suddenly become close enough and make our parents realize that its high time.

 

CASE 2

You will not believe what happened to me recently!! 

At a name keeping ceremony I went to, an unknown lady walked up to me and asked “whats your height??” Without thinking much, I told her my height (or rather the lack of it! :( ) .

She seemed disappointed..

“My son has also done computer engineering.” ya rite! Now I know where this is heading…

“But he’s 6’2”…she turned her head..from side to side..

REJECTED! I could almost hear her say that….

I smiled. Never have I felt so good about my height!

She wandered away, in search of a taller bride…

 

CASE 3

“Im not telling you to get married today” my friend’s parents told my friend barely 6 months ago.

“Just start seeing now, and anyway it takes at least an year to search-finalize- get engaged-and marry”

As I write this she’s in Singapore, on her honeymoon. ;)

 

PS:To all my friends who are getting engaged/married : PLEASE STOP putting pics on Facebook…my mom is watching!!!!!

 

Abha Deshkar

5/1/2011

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